My so called friend of 12 years dumped me on Facebook. Honestly, I am not even sad or mad about it. It was over something mediocre and because honestly I should have been the one doing the dumping.

The whole situation has helped me realize how important it is to evaluate friendships. If you have the slightest feeling that your friendship with someone is toxic you should cut ties with that person.

The whole dumping started with a rude message calling me bitchy because I had not returned her phone call. I explained to her the week before that I was studying until 2am on some days for my CompTIA exam, she said that she understood, but she said that I “couldn’t be thaaaat busy”. I did not even bother responding to that comment. It was pointless to respond to something like that.

She sent the message saying that I am being bitchy for ignoring her calls, and in the same breath saying she did not care why I was not talking to her. Honestly, what kind of friend says that to you? I guess it’s the kind of friend that tries to put you down all the time. The kind of friend that says “Look at your hair, do you think that is healthy? Or “Well, I am going to a real school” Who would do that? Not a friend. Not a friend that you should stay up late for and listen to their problems. Not a friend who constantly berates her guy and in the same breath says that she wants to have another baby with him. Not someone who constantly puts other people down based on their looks. Not someone who questions your beliefs based on speculation.  Not someone who constantly contradicts herself when judging others. If your “friend” says stuff to try and put you down, you need to evaluate your relationship.

Hypocrites piss me off more than anything in the world. I do not understand how a person can constantly talk about someone else for being unmarried with kids yet they are in a similar, and often worse situation.

I think what really made me not care to try and communicate with her is the fact that she is stating she did not care why I was not talking to her, WTH?? In her final message she said that her thoughts are never wrong… WELL that is a great adult argument, right?

I think that ultimately we are headed in two different directions. I have grown old of all of the hate and talking about people and she still remains the same.

I am rising above and moving on with my life.

To the birds.